My Mother Said I Never Should, by Charlotte Keating
The Dukes
Studio, Lancaster
27 – 31 January 2004
Reviewed by
"My Mother Said …' is of a quite different species
from the Wilde. Lauded as a late twentieth-century masterpiece, placed
on the school and university exam lists, the play examines four related
women in their mother-daughter relationships throughout four generations
and over sixty years. Different lifestyles are explored, from the prim
(and, seemingly, relatively fun and carefree) 1920s to the angst-ridden
1950s, the more liberated 1970s and the inter- and post-Thatcher later
years in the late 1980s.
The play had been heralded as her "all-time favourite'
by an intelligent and well-read good friend of ours, though I had never
heard of Keatley or her work. Despite having now seen this excellent
and sensitive production (though not yet read the published text) I
am, probably to the horror of many – and to Rachel's palpable
disgust), not impressed with the piece.
In the course of the action, the maternal and other relationships of
the four women, in soliloquy, in twos and threes and, also, all four
of them, are portrayed. These narratives, not chronologically represented,
are punctuated with flashbacks to a primal childhood which takes place
on, evocatively, "The Wasteground', which is reminiscent
of Eliot's bleak poems "The Waste Land', and also
of Macbeth's witch scenes, and "blasted heaths'.
The difficulties of being an individual, a woman, a mother, a daughter,
any relative are presented at different time periods from the Blitz
in urban Manchester to prosperous Surrey suburbia in the years of Thatcherite
plenty over forty years on. Plus ça change, however,
the less the characters seem to develop. I did not feel that any of
the successive generations of women learns anything about themselves
or their spouses (we never see any men in the play though Doris and
Margaret both have husbands, and Jackie a brief partner).
The same mistakes, inadequacies and failings perpetuate themselves
throughout the decades. I saw little evidence that any of the four women
learned anything about herself, her problems, her relationships –
or indeed about life. Their ability to communicate adequately was seriously
dysfunctional. Nowhere was there a glimmer of hope, of learning, or
reconciliation.
It was as if the nihilism and pessimism of Samuel Beckett and the 1950s
‘Kitchen Sink' school were trying to attain epic or tragic
heights – without the dignity of a Lady Macbeth, Cordelia or Hardy's
Tess. Or the humility. In short, a loosely-written, bleak, powerful
but largely unconvincing play which – for this reviwer at least
– does not really succeed. I did not find it at all inappropriate
that the author's name had been omitted from the programme.
But enough of that – what the text lacked, the performance more
than compensated for. The text does, nonetheless, provide ample opportunity
for the cast, direction and crew, and this production was exemplary
on so many fronts. The migration of the dynasty from the Manchester
area to the South East evinced some deft delineations of accent and
atmosphere between the grimy, urban North and the prosperous, more urban
but not urbane South.
The varied and appropriate costumes, from Katrina McAulley, also highlighted
the north-south divide, and gave added strength to the characters. Director
Carla Dean co-ordinated varied and evocative movement and gestures which
also firmly ‘placed' the period and its styles. Towards
the end, when Doris the matriarch is a young bride-to-be, I was forcefully
reminded of my own late Auntie Clare, who was also a stunningly attractive
young schoolteacher and in fact from Chorley.
This stylisation is all the more remarkable, considering that four
young women (presumably all around the early twenties mark) were able
to convincingly portray girls and women aged between the pre-teens and
passing 80s. Indeed the whole production team was female, and whilst
I feel the text suffers without a man in the cast, the overall production
most certainly did not.
In short, this was a very polished, able and convincing production
of what struck me as, at best, a flawed but fertile play.